If she was going to remain an engaged lady, then she would make the most of it, and one of the ways to do this would be to enjoy her free time.

Alexander McCall Smith
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If she was going to remain an engaged lady, then she would make the most of it, and one of the ways to do this would be to enjoy her free time. The idea here is that if a lady is engaged to be married, she must enjoy her free time. She must not try to put on airs or act in a way that is above her station. This is because the main reason why women are so strongly encouraged to be engaged is so that they can have relationships with boys when they are young.

When they are grown, they are expected to marry these boys. This is why it is important for women to enjoy their time with boys when they are young. If they do not, then when they grow up and become engaged, no boy will want them.

Source: The Full Cupboard Of Life

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